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Thursday, March 24, 2005

3 ways to get over rejection

Visualize this: You see a stunning beauty on the other side of the bar. Your heart starts racing, your palms get sweaty and your cheeks get flushed as your inner voice says, “Go over and say anything! Just start talking!” As you get up to walk over, the same voice asks, “What if you say something stupid or what if you’re not good enough?”
If the risk of rejection is holding you back, put your priorities into perspective: You’ll always regret most the things you never dare to do.
The truth about rejection
Every time you start a new relationship, ask for a second date or introduce your new honey to the family, you face the possibility of rejection. It’s a part of life and can’t be avoided. You can reduce your rejection anxieties, though, by keeping in mind these three universal truths:
*Truth #1: The odds are in your favor.
At least 33% of the people you approach will not be interested in you romantically. Don’t try to analyze why; there are just too many possibilities. Instead, increase your chances by approaching more women. The more chances you give yourself, the better the odds that you'll succeed
*Truth #2: You’re not alone.
Women experience the fear of rejection, too. It’s just as painful for both genders. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that one gender gets the cold shoulder more than the other.
*Truth #3: There are other fish in the sea.
Rejection is only one person’s opinion. That means there are thousands of eligible women ready to hear from you!

Rejection is one of life’s essential lessons, helping you to avoid people who aren’t interested and to focus on the singles with whom you can make a meaningful match. Don’t let the fear of the unknown keep you from romantic success.

2 Comments:

Blogger Pradeep said...

Wonderful insight, and very true as well...

March 24, 2005 12:33 PM  
Blogger sach_D_truth said...

tru abs tru...
i hav a gut feeling that u have put these pooints from some email which u got from some newsletter...or sumthing..but whatever its true and the best thing is that it wud b gr8 if can get over evry rejection quickly and easily and move on to the next...

and we say it in hindi...
Ladki bus and train k peechey nahin bhagna chahiye kyonki ek jaati hai to dussri aati hai...
jus kidding!
Cheers!

March 28, 2005 12:46 AM  

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